Sunday, December 7, 2008 in I Forgot To Pick A Category

It’s like Christmas is coming or something

We’ve been getting closer to our holiday preparations here. Some shopping has started, lists have been made, plans are getting finalized. I think my Christmas spirit – that normally kicks in around mid-November – is finally starting to creep in around the edges.

Ron and I and Emma went to the homeschooling group’s Christmas dinner, where some of the family members did little performances. A poetry reading, a small piece on the piano, and two families each sang together beautifully. Ron turned to me later and said, ‘We could have sang something,” I suppose yes we could have. But alas, it has been a while and we are out of practice.

So yesterday while working in the office, Ron started playing the Christmas tunes. That did it. I can’t work well with music and when he starts playing songs we can sing together (Unforgettable – Nat King and Natalie Cole) well, I’m about lost.

And then we practiced “Baby It’s Cold Outside” because we are insufferably adorable. And I’m gonna prove it in a post next week. :P

It’s not just that kind of together time, we took the girls all the way down the road to the local convenience store to pick out a Christmas tree. yes, it’s about a kilometer. It’s been so long since we went tree-picking as a family – I think it was 2000, the older girls sort of sat there in there car going, “What do we do now?”

“Well, get out and help Dad and I pick a tree.” I told them.

“How about this one?” Ron is in the middle of the stand, covered by branches.

“Do we want tall? Or bushy? Or tall and bushy?” I asked him, reminding him we hadn’t discussed the exact kind of tree we were looking for. Ron and I propped up almost every tree and discussed their merits, bantering back and forth.

“How about a green one?” said Meaghan.

I looked at Sarah. “I’m here for the long argument about semantics,” she said from under her hat.

“GAH! We’re having family togetherness time! Enjoy yourselves darn it!” That’s me.

We then settled on a tree, went inside to pay our $20, and watched Ron play a game of pinball for 25 cents on the ancient machine. That part was fun.

Back outside, we stuffed the tree in the trunk of our little Ford Focus. “Can you see it out your mirror?” Ron asked. “Let me know if it moves.”

“I hope we don’t have to walk home,” Meaghan said in the back, “It’s awfully far.”

We got all the way to the post office – you know, the one NEXT DOOR – before we had to stop and rearrange the tree in the trunk trying to fall out. Today we have to argue about where to put it.

But even better! Already we have presents! Ron had started asking me about a month ago if I wanted a new bathroom sink for Christmas. Our main bathroom upstairs (the one with the clawfoot tub) has a teeny tiny old sink, that quite frankly is disgusting. All the enamel is worn off in one spot right under the cold tap for starters. The drain was clogged when we moved in.

The more I thought of it, the more I thought of how tired I was and how much better I’d feel if I could get a workout in somehow. It’s too cold / icy / sidewalk-free for me to walk outside. Finally, Ron found out that a former co-worker’s girlfriend had an elliptical machine in their basement, and she hated it. She only got it to keep her moving while she waited for her treadmill to get here from Newfoundland.

I went out to their place, looked at it, tried it out for a few minutes and had a hard time getting off the thing becasue it started to feel good, then played with their baby. I came home and told Ron he was getting it for me. Yesterday it was delivered, and I overdid it a bit with two short workouts. The second was because I foudn my mp3 player and it was charged this time.

Boy did it feel good. I’m tired today, but it’s a different tired. It’s a good tired, like things are looking up.

And maybe I’ll get Ron a bathroom sink for Christmas.

Thursday, December 4, 2008 in I Forgot To Pick A Category

Get crafty for the holidays

I’ve been thinking of Christmas presents and been in a crafty mood lately. And the girls have been thinking crafty as well. For years, I’ve made gifts for people, not always because it’s cheaper, but because it’s more personal.

Want some ideas? Here’s some crafty project bookmarks I’ve collected up.

You’re welcome! :D

Wednesday, December 3, 2008 in working at home & loving it

Work at Home Wednesdays: Step up what you already have

For today’s WAHW post, I want to talk about quick ways to pull in some funds. I had been tossing around this idea in my mind earlier this week, and a few outside sources all came together to really push home that this was the post to write this week. :D

Since it is just after the first of the month, I have just been paid for different ad schemes on the two blogs I write. This time, and last month, were big enough I finally stuck my head up and noticed. What changed? Well, let’s have a look.

- I ditched what wasn’t working.
- I added new or different sources of ad revenue.
- I moved things around.

I really also have to state that on this blog (my personal one) I am making more money off it than I was two years ago, and I have HALF the traffic that I used to. So clearly, this income is not traffic based. On the other blog, it is an extremely focused niche topic with a good page rank and a high amount of targeted search traffic. Between them both, the income from them has jumped TEN TIMES what it was six to twelve months ago.

If you’re reading this, chances are you have a blog and you’re at least slightly interested in making at least a small income from it. Kind of like the readers at Problogger. I left a comment on a recent entry of Darren’s, after his poll showed that a large portion of his readers made no money from their blog. I thought that was really quite odd, considering that’s what his blog is about – making money from your blog. I would assume the bulk of his readership is interested in making money from their blogs.

Something was up.

Now, it’s a really good blog, and since I have started following the advice there, my income *has* gone up. Many other bloggers can attest to that as well. So for the readers over there who were not making any money, one thing was clear to me: they were not following Darren’s advice. I left a comment asking basically what was holding them back? What I meant was, what was holding them back from making more money from their blogs?

I didn’t check for responses until today, and had no idea I touched off a bit of a firestorm. Or maybe hit a nerve in some people. Who knows? At any rate, form the rest of the comments it seems like most people had just stuck a tentative toe in the waters and were waiting.

So here’s my proposal: have an objective look at your site. Anything need improvement? if you are just using one source of ad revenue (google adsense, for example) then you are limiting your options. Most ad schemes allow you to run a maximum, and run alongside others. Take advantage of that, but try not to be so plastered with ads you annoy people. There’s a balance: find it.

If something is not working, drop it. Add something different to try that out. Move your ad placements around.

If you have affiliate links on your page, and you have them there because you like the products, talk about it. BLOG IT! This might seem obvious, but when I talked to some other mom bloggers who make money online, two of them said affiliate programs didn’t work for them. Which is fine, really I understand they are not for everyone, but the thing I noticed was, despite the fact I was a regular reader of both their blogs, I had no memory of them ever mentioning what affiliates they had.

Again, try not to be annoying and mention affiliate links in every post, but regular readers should be aware of you have them. Not everyone reads your blog at your site (hello rss reader) and many readers are “sidebar blind”.

There’s another point – if you have everything under the sun on your sidebars (or sidebarS to squeeze it all in) give them a real going-over and clean them up. There’s no point in having 20 ads all over the place if they all wind up getting ignored and most of them earn you nothing or very little.

What’s holding people back? In a nutshell, here’s an overview:

- too many or too few ads
- bad ad placement
- relying on one source of ad income
- fear of ticking off or driving away readers

I’ve covered the first three, and as for that last one – if you run a WordPress blog and you get a decent amount of search traffic, try the Who Sees Ads plugin. This will show ads only on archive & single post pages, and just to people coming from search engines. If they are a regular, they won’t see any ads. (This will be coming soon to all my blogs.)

From a readership standpoint, I use FireFox as my main browser and I have an ad blocker. I don’t see most of the ads unless I turn off AdBlock. :D And when I DO see ads on mom blogs, especially for other mom-based businesses, I try to look around and see fit here’s anything interesting and click when I find something.

I was also going to put “lack of knowledge” in there as a reason, but I have found that many people DO know what they should be doing, they just haven’t done it yet, partly because the information is either overwhelming or confusing. Or maybe it’s fear of failure, who knows. Check out your blog, pick a few things, and try shuffling items around. Let it run for a bit them, check your stats and see the change.